What's got my attention this week #2

Things to read, watch and listen to this weekend

Martha Stewart, 81, in Sports Illustrated's Swimsuit Issue, Helen Mirren, 77, at Cannes Film Festival. Only one of these women looks comfortable in her skin

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• What if we stopped doing things to achieve, and just did them for the sake of doing them?
• How to make – and keep – friends when you're an introvert. And when it's worth rekindling old friendships.
• Why are the sexual needs of the bereaved still taboo? (This piece is brilliant.)
• It's not too late to sign up to No Mow May. £
• Emma Forrest is candid about why she regrets her encounter with an "ethnic rhinoplasty specialist".
• There's no big secret to the way wealthy people dress.
• Abortion bans are gifts to abusers.
• Embracing the crone years.
• The reality of motherhood over 40.
• Should you respect your parent's wishes when cognitive decline changes them? (The latest in a series…